Herewith, from science and folklore, are over 20 surefire techniques for finding, attracting, and wedding the person you will love forever.
- Roast hummingbird hearts, grind them into a powder, and sprinkle it on your beloved.
- Kiss as many people as possible. Dr. Bubba Nicholson of Tampa, Florida, says that kissing is a way for us to taste semiochemicals on another’s skin. Semiochemicals transmit biological signals of compatability and attraction.
- Pluck a stalk of yarrow and stick it up your nose. If a drop of blood appears, your love is true.
- Australian aborigines prepare a love potion from the testicles of kangaroos.
- Think of the one you love while you swallow a four-leaf clover, and your love will be returned.
- Upon hearing the first coo of a dove in the spring, take off your left stocking and look in the heel of it. You will find a hair the color of your true love’s hair.
- Swallow the heart of a wild duck.
- On New Year’s Eve, walk from one room to another while throwing a shoe over your shoulder, then look in a mirror and your mate’s face will be there.
- Place a snail in a pan of cornmeal, and the tracks it makes will spell your true love’s initials.
- Hide the dried tongue of a turtledove in a girl’s room; she will love you forever.
- In 18th-century France, a man told a woman three times that she was beautiful. The first time she was required to thank him, the second time to believe him, and the third time to reward him.
- If you touch your little finger and forefinger behind your two middle fingers, you can have any sweetheart you like.
- Swallow a white dove’s heart, point downward, while resting your hand on the shoulder of one you love.
- Hard boil an egg, cut it in half, discard the yolk, and fill the egg halves with salt. Sit on something you’ve never sat on before, eat the egg, and walk to bed backwards. You will dream of your future mate.
- Walk around the block with your mouth full of water; if you don’t swallow it, you will marry within the year.
- Pull a hair from the head of a girl you like, and she will love you.
- Pick an apple, prick it full of holes, carry it for a while under your left arm, then give it to your lover.
- If you stub your toe, kiss your thumb and you’ll see your beau.
- Cut your nails on nine Sundays in a row.
Stop looking. Many experts agree that searching for a perfect mate is doomed. Be flexible and commit to the unknown. But if you must look, then carry the heart of an owl with you at all times.
Since the beginning of time, it seems, people have gone above and beyond to try the latest love potion. Do any of these so-called aphrodisiacs have any real effect? Read on and you’ll be surprised. . .
The more exotic, the more erotic
History is full of stories of ordinary people using bizarre stimulants for their love live: powder from the horns of rhinos, bat blood mixed with whiskey, crocodile dung . . . you get the idea.
People have hoped for sexual euphoria since ancient times. In fact, the very word, aphrodisiac, comes from the Greek goddess of love Aphrodite, who has inspired cultures throughout the ages to achieve her legendary heights of delight. For example:
- Pliny the Elder recommended hippopotamus snout and hyena eyes.
- Horace touted dried marrow and liver.
- In Elizabethan times, prunes were so highly regarded as aphrodisiacs that they were served for free in brothels.
The Science of Infatuation
The possibility of death, presence of danger, secrecy, and even chocolate can spark erotic urgency. But so can the brain chemical called phenylethylamine (PEA). This is the stimulant the brain releases in the early stages of infatuation. It’s the revver-upper that allows us to stay awake all night and lose our appetites.
PEA races through the system of the thrill seeker, allowing the adventurer to feel alert, self-assured and ready for whatever challenge awaits. For those men who need more help, we offer some tips from the great romantics of the past:
- Casanova championed oysters.
- Napoleon treasured truffles.
- Popeye performed manly feats on a can or two of spinach.
- The Mharajah of Bikaner ingested crushed diamonds.
- If all else fails, go forth and make yourself rich, or powerful, or the caretaker of a baby, for there are women who say these traits are most alluring.
Do love potions work?
In 1989, The US Food and Drug Administration banned advertisers from promoting pills or potions because testing had shown that none worked no matter what the contents—whether fennel or dried beetle bodies.
Any that appeared to work did so only because the user believed they would—the stimulant lay only in the users’ mind. In other words, it’s the imagination that creates its own exciting possibilities and the body that leaps forward to fulfill the fantasies.
The Last Stimulant You’ll Ever Need
Love is the most magnificent of aphrodisiacs. Although it is certainly no more easier to get a hold of than some of these potions, it’s a heck of a lot cheaper and more environmentally friendly.
Do you know the language of flowers? As our list below shows, each flower has its own meaning. Orange blossom, for instance, symbolizes chastity, purity and loveliness, while red chrysanthemum means I love you.
Flowers have always been a big feature at weddings, too. The groom often wears a flower that appears in the bridal bouquet in his button-hole. This stems from the Medieval tradition of wearing his Lady’s colors, as a declaration of his love.
One fun idea is to have a garden gathering and have each person bring a flower that has meaning to them. Or, paint tiles on a kitchen island with a flower that represents each of your loved ones.
There is a language, little known,
Lovers claim it as their own.
Its symbols smile upon the land,
Wrought by nature’s wondrous hand;
And in their silent beauty speak,
Of life and joy, to those who seek
For Love Divine and sunny hours
In the language of the flowers.
–The Language of Flowers, London, 1875
|Symbolic Meanings of Herbs, Flowers and Trees|
|Aloe||Healing, protection, affection|
|Bachelor’s button||Single blessedness|
|Carnation||Alas for my poor heart|
|Clover, white||Think of me|
|Crocus, spring||Youthful gladness|
|Dill||Powerful against evil|
|Geranium, oak-leaved||True friendship|
|Honeysuckle||Bonds of love|
|Hyacinth||Constancy of love, fertility|
|Jasmine, white||Sweet love|
|Lilac||Joy of youth|
|Marjoram||Joy and happiness|
|Myrtle||The emblem of marriage, true love|
|Rose, red||Love, desire|
|Rue||Grace, clear vision|
|Salvia, blue||I think of you|
|Salvia, red||Forever mine|
|Tulip, red||Declaration of love|
|Violet||Loyalty, devotion, faithfulness|
|Zinnia||Thoughts of absent friends|